Pray for the Unborn

Today is the anniversary of Roe v. Wade. While I usually do everything I can to avoid politics, this is one issue I feel very passionate about. I often wonder what life would have been like had I chosen abortion, in the midst of fear, 12 years ago. Twelve years ago from right around now, I found out that I was pregnant. My boyfriend was going to school in Duluth. We had had a great relationship but the distance was taking a toll, especially for him because of all the new things he was experiencing. I was terrified and 18. My parents were always very clear about how they felt about sex before marriage. Thankfully they were also very clear how they felt about abortion. I remember walking from my car to the college I was attending - the parking lot and sidewalks were icy and somewhat treacherous. I remember touching my belly and smiling - telling my baby that I would take good care of him or her. It was a sustaining moment for me. I felt God's grace to make the right decision and that we'd be okay. My family was an amazing support to me - as was my baby's dad and his family. I feel blessed to have been wrapped in so much love during such a stressful time. My heart goes out to those women who weren't and aren't in that kind of environment. Those who didn't even feel they really had a choice. My heart goes out to all of those who chose in fear.

God bless the unborn babies - may their mothers love more than they fear and protect them.

6 comments:

angie said...

jolene! this is SUCH A GOOD POST. i'm crying. i'm not kidding. i love that you don't judge the women who didn't make the same choice you did. i don't think any of us can pretend to understand what every person's story is, but we do need to pray for them--that they can find the love and hope and GRACE that you did.
you made the best choice. i love tyler. and you.:)

Anonymous said...

Can I get an A M E N sista's!!!!!!

Amy said...

Wonderful post, Jolene.
It's so true that many women in your situation don't have a supporting family and then do make that decision out of fear. Amen for your family and for your decision 12 years ago. :)

erin said...

Wow, Jolene!
Thank you for sharing.

Anonymous said...

Jolene, I'm crying. Thank you for the beautiful story and for choosing life. I love you. I love Tyler. Thank you, Jo.
~sm

Anonymous said...

Jolene, I just got around to reading your beautiful blog!! You have done a wonderful job being a mom to Tyler !! And your other 3 children also. Thank you for sharing. It was very moving and insightful to me. Love you Judy